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When I was five years old, my aunt and uncle tragically died in a car accident and my five cousins became my siblings. Overnight I went from being the youngest of six, to number nine of eleven. In a household of thirteen people, everyone coped with the sudden chaos differently. There were some intense emotions and conflicts with some family members, but you didn\u2019t see that from me. I coped by hiding my feelings, staying quiet, and playing the role of peace maker. For a long time I thought I was doing the right thing, but I have since realized that not letting people truly see me kept me from truly connecting in my relationships.<\/p>\n
I see similar patterns in most couples I work with, hiding and being afraid to show our partners our true selves. Losing connection with those we love is deeply painful. Whether you are considering divorce, feel confused by how intensely you fight, or over time haven\u2019t experienced the emotional depth you\u2019ve been longing for, beneath the desperate protests and withdrawal is the pain of disconnection. Two people desperate for connection, but terrified that opening up will only push their partner further away.<\/p>\n
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We experienced this early in my marriage. We had some difficult conversations about our insecurities that created more distance between us. It was scary and painful. I then did what I always did by avoiding the problem and focusing on finding ways to serve and make my wife happy. However, thanks to the work we both put in and my journey of becoming a therapist, we have learned how to understand and care for our vulnerable needs that were hiding underneath the surface.<\/p>\n
You don’t need another generic communication tool, book, or homework practice sheet. You need a guide who knows how to step into that chaotic cycle with you, help you understand and care for each other\u2019s hidden wounds, and build a deeply connected relationship. It\u2019s time to finally get the help you\u2019ve needed and experience the relationship you\u2019ve been longing for.<\/p>\n
Please reach out to schedule a free discovery visit today so I can help you experience true connection!<\/p>\n
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